The Benefits of Joining the Military for Kids Without a Clear Plan

Happy Veterans Day, America. This Veterans Day, my thoughts take a different turn. I am reminded that enlisting in the military was the most beneficial decision I made for my personal growth and independence.

Me in Unform at Basic Training Graduation.

Veterans Day is a time to honor those who have served in the military and recognize the sacrifices they have made for their country. For many parents, the idea of encouraging their children to join the military can be difficult. Concerns about safety, the challenges of military life, and the unknown future often create hesitation. Yet, choosing a military path can offer young people unique opportunities for growth, discipline, and purpose that few other careers provide.

INDEPENDENCE

My Battle Buddies and I have two things we always laugh about:

1. "Starr, you cried EVERY NIGHT"

   1. It's true. My mother would send me letters almost daily, and I'd sit in my little bunk bed and cry. My mother is my best friend, and I'm her only child, so I missed her deeply! I'd cry, fall asleep, and wake up the next day determined to persevere. Being away from family and friends was hard, but I knew I wanted something different, and this was the best way to achieve it!

2. "Starr, you can fall asleep anywhere."

   1. And let me tell you, I mean ANYWHERE! Even now, if I'm sleepy, I can doze off anywhere. The shooting range, the bus, sitting somewhere in a field—if I'm tired, I'm going to sleep!

I share these examples to illustrate that I wasn't the ideal candidate, but I needed to leave home and prepare for something different, and personal sacrifice helped me achieve that.

Educational and Career Opportunities

The military offers extensive educational benefits that can help young people pursue higher education without the burden of student debt. Programs like the GI Bill provide funding for college, vocational training, and certifications.

Beyond education, the military opens doors to a wide range of career paths. From engineering and healthcare to cybersecurity and aviation, service members gain skills that are highly valued in the civilian job market. Many veterans find that their military experience gives them a competitive edge when applying for jobs after their service.

Leadership Difficulties

While I was in the service, I used to think that facing obstacles wouldn't be as challenging in the civilian sector. However, I was mistaken. Experiencing toxic leadership, controlling employers, and challenges in getting promoted can occur whether you're in the military or not.

Sometimes we convince ourselves that things are better "out here," but in reality, people are people, and leaders can be flawed whether you're serving or not.

Honoring Veterans Day by Supporting Future Service Members

Veterans Day is a reminder of the sacrifices made by those who have served. Encouraging your children to consider military service is a way to honor that legacy and contribute to the ongoing strength of the nation.

By supporting their decision, you help prepare them for a path that offers personal growth, career opportunities, and a chance to make a meaningful difference. It’s a choice that deserves respect and thoughtful consideration.

Keep the idea open!

I understand that military service isn't suitable for everyone. However, for those of us seeking self-discovery, discipline, and experience, it can be a worthwhile option to consider.

My grandmother compelled my father to join the military. Without that decision, he might have ended up in jail. It was undoubtedly the best choice she could have made for him.

While I was in college, I started taking on more leadership roles at work. Work became more significant to me than school, and I realized I needed to join the military to complete my education. I did just that! The military funded the second half of my bachelor's degree and my master's degree!

A legacy of service: My father and I both served in the Army for similar reasons.

The only thing I regret is not staying in longer.

Choosing to serve in the military is a significant decision that can shape a young person’s future in profound ways. Encouraging your children to explore this path can lead to a fulfilling life filled with purpose, growth, and opportunity.

This Veterans Day, take a moment to say Happy Veterans Day to those who have served and consider how you can support the next generation of service members. Their journey may be challenging, but it is also rewarding and meaningful.