A Deep Dive into Tyler Perry's Ruth & Boaz: A Movie Review

Against my better judgement I finally watched Tyler Perry's Ruth and Boaz on Netflix.

As a divorced, single mom, I am a romantic at heart and eagerly anticipate experiencing love once more. Because of this, I seldom watch romantic films. There was a time when I even avoided listening to love songs, as I didn't need a reminder of what I was missing.

Just to clarify, I am neither bitter nor angry... I adore love! 

It's just that I don't have it right now and find it difficult to fully embrace it.

Please don't judge me; I'm just being truthful.

In addition, I am a serious crybaby. My kids laugh at me, the same way I used to laugh at my mom because I cry all the time.

On a Sunday afternoon, my friend recommended the movie.

The very next morning my mom texted the group chat and said:

“Ruth and Boaz on Netflix”.

That Wednesday my aunt said:

“THANKS. Just watched Ruth & Boaz. 10+ star’s. Sooooo good” .

That same Wednesday my friend said:

“Just finished Ruth & Boaz…cried like a baby. U gotta watch”.

See below the Official Trailer:

I finally decided AGAINST MY BETTER JUDGEMENT to watch the movie.

I knew I'd be crying all throughout that movie and I wasn't lying.

One of the best decisions Tyler Perry made in this film was choosing Phylicia Rashad as the narrator. Phylicia Rashad possesses a voice that is warm, loving, and almost familiar, enhancing the impact of the movie's lessons. Right from the start, she states:

“Love is the most powerful force in the universe.”

“Sometimes it appears in the most unexpected and unconventional ways.”

 Her words captivate and command your attention.

Honey, 19 minutes into the movie and I started feeling the emotions already.

There is a scene when the main character Ruth, portrayed by Serayah McNeill, is crying in her bedroom. She is crying out to God and asking him what she should do. I could relate deeply to that part. There have been many days and nights I have cried awaiting Gods answer, direction or clarity and he always supplies!

There is another profound quote here in the movie:

"Sometimes God's angels don't wait for an invitation. They show up when we want to be alone"

This theme resonated deeply with me because I am fortunate to have remarkable individuals in my life. Throughout numerous challenges and difficult times, God has surrounded me with people who selflessly care for, love, and support me, even when I'm unsure of my path.

Ruth met a friend "Lena" who reminded me of the great friends I have been able to meet on my journey. Sometimes it can be in the most random way you'll meet the most life altering people.

God strategically puts people on your journey to guide you in the way he would have you go.

When Ruth performed with Babyface, she sang a song that I am very familiar with. The lyrics began with “...all my life you have been faithful” ...

She started reflecting on her mother leaving her, and at that moment, I recalled all the experiences I've been through and how they've shaped the woman I am now. I am thankful that God has supported me through my most challenging times! I'm certain that if I asked you, you could look back and recognize many seasons where The Lord has supported you during your darkest moments.

Another theme Tyler Perry speaks to well is Grief .

There is a scene when grief is taking over Naomi (Phylicia Rashad). She says:

"Sometimes grief is like an unexpected storm; You can't see it coming!"

As a person who prefers to confront grief head-on, I completely agree with this statement. Some days, you feel inspired to embrace life, while on others, you're overwhelmed by emotions. It was an outstanding portrayal for anyone who is experiencing or has experienced the path of grief.

The most significant theme, which I won't delve into too deeply because you should watch the movie and form your own conclusions:

We are all worthy of our own Love & Happily Ever After.

Against my better judgment, I loved the movie. Yes, I cried, yes, I thought back over my own life and could relate to some of the themes of loss and grief but what is Cinema if it does not evoke emotion?

Do I recommend? Yes! You most certainly should watch this movie!